Sunday, February 28, 2010

Things are Good Today

Today things are better. It is amazing what some sleep can do. I got about 8 hours of sleep and Carol got about 7. Lizzie also got about 7 hours of sleep. We can't help but think that her lack of sleep contributed to her seizure(which was a minor seizure but still scared us pretty good). Lizzie was talking a little bit this morning and resting a lot. Drinking lots of fluids, which is good. She laughed a couple of times when some of our good friends came to visit. It was nice.

They have a brief church service and I just loved it. The hymns that were chosen seemed appropriate and were comforting. We met a couple of really nice couples there. One couple we met has a child that is 9 and has the exact same thing Lizzie has. They have been here for 2 weeks. Today is a week for us. At times it has flown by, at times it has crawled by, but as I sat in church I had a feeling of gratitude sweep over me and comfort me. The other couple we met also said their son is on a medication for the haleucinations and that it helps their son sleep well. I think we'll talk with our doctor about that if she continues to have problems with haleucinations. The medicine also helps with sleeping and heaven knows she could use some more of that!

One of the thoughts I had was that I was actually grateful that Lizzie had such a bad day yesterday. I found myself questioning why Heavenly Father wouldn't make it possible for her to sleep. She was so miserable. We had prayed so constantly and we know that others were praying for her too. I think if she hadn't gotten so bad and had the seizure that they wouldn't have given her that heavy dose of medication that will allow her to sleep. She is so much more calm and relaxed and I think it will be helpful to her. Heavenly Father answered our prayers. As usual, it wasn't immediate. I don't think I was demanding, but it is hard to see your child suffer. And I am just grateful now, our faith was sustained and our prayers answered. What a blessing!

I can't speak for Carol on this, but I felt so comforted at church. It was also nice to be able to watch Music and the Spoken Word this morning. It seemed to comfort Lizzie and it is amazing how uplifting music can be therapeutic. So far, I have just loved today and I feel grateful for how things have gone so far. I would like to attend our ward. I feel so grateful for how kind they have been and supportive they have been to us. I know we are on a roller coaster. I am now pretty sure we'll be here for at least another week. Carol is going to go home and spend time with Spencer and Lizzie tonight and come back in the morning. Please don't tell them if you see them, we want them to be surprised.

Anyhow, there is our update. We continue to appreciate your love and support.

8 comments:

Linda Lou said...

Love, support, prayers....You've got 'em Ben! Happy to hear Lizzie is doing better today. Our hearts are breaking for all of you, I can't even imagine what you're feeling. But, Father God knows and that's what counts. Standing in the gap continually! With much love, The Reeds!

The Stanley's said...

There were beautiful prayers said at church today for Lizzie.
It is sunny and warm today, and it almost feels like your post reflects the day...brighter and happier.
What a relief that you were all able to rest.

Collins Family said...

We are so glad to hear that you and Lizzie are getting some much needed rest. You are an inspiration to us all, and we want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Bonnie the Boss said...

My Spencer and I havebeen fasting for your family today. I am so glad things are better!!!

Pam and Jerry Putnam said...

Dear Carol and Ben, I did not know about your blog till today. If there is anything we can do for you please let us know. We pray for you and your family daily. When I went to the temple the other day I put your names on the prayer roll. I know this will help immensely as I have seen the great improvement with my mom just in the past few months. We are so grateful to have the gospel in our lives. We will continue to pray for Lizzie that she will be able to sleep as being in the hospital can wear you down so easily. I know because of what I went through with Jerry recently.
We love and are thinking of you and your family during this trying time of your life. Things will get better. If you need anything please do not hesitate to call. Our prayers are constantly with you and your family.

Love, Pam and Jerry Putnam

Tausha said...

happy to hear some happy news! I so appreciate the reminder of how Heavenly Father answers all prayers.
So glad that you are all sleeping and that Carol gets to go home-even for a little bit! Love you all!

Anonymous said...

Dear Carol and Ben,
Talked to your Dad last night,Carol.All I have been able to think about is Lizzie and both of you.Doug and I pray constantly for Lizzie and all your family. I can only imagine the sheer terror of your experiences but also the comfort of your faith.As a grandmother I can feel the terrible hurt and helplessness you feel when your child is suffering so.It truly is almost more than you think you can bear but we are never given more than we can bear----sometimes hard to believe!!!
We love all of you very much and will continue to pray for Lizzie's healing and your strength and courage---also for Spencer and Calli. I know this is very difficult for them too.Thank goodness for grandparents and friends.
I look forward to reading about your days. Hope they only get better and better
Love, Aunt Jackie

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Chelsea said...

We've been reading and following Lizzie's progress everyday. You're family is continually in our prayers and thoughts. Your faith and courage is so uplifting to read about. My heart aches as I think about what your family is enduring right now. Please send our love to Lizzie and tell her she has prayers coming all the way from Indiana. Love you guys!